About Sabr.

It takes me ages to really understand what sabr means. Every time I told people about how tough the certain situation is, they responded "sabr". For me, that's underrated advice people could give. "Be positive", how possible a sad person could digest and implement this in a wrecking feelings of theirs? For me, it doesn't helping much. 

By putting myself in their shoes, that was the last phrase I would hear from anybody. No matter how hard to accept it, it's actually what we have to understand. Be patient. Have sabr. Let's take a look this really closely. 

Sabr is about submitting yourself to the Almighty. Through this submission you will learn to accept what's going on in your life and how to react upon it. Sabr doesn't mean to keep yourself quiet. If crying is what you want to do, just cry. Don't hold it back. Respect your own feelings. It's all fine to take some time to understand. Some things are better left unsaid. 

Through submission, you slowly teach yourself to accept the fate. What's beyond your control is what you need to let go of. We're not god. We're weak creatures. We don't have powers to take control everything. So, let go by the flow. 

With sabr you're going to teach yourself on enduring the pain you've been through. Have sabr, take yourself out from what bothering you. Fix what you need to fix especially in moulding you to become a better person. 

Every single things is going through a process either a long or short one. It is still a process. A process that you can't speed up but, the catalyst in the forms of energy that you have to channel it in the right way while undergoing the circumstances. The catalyst generates  your positive energy to keep going and doing your bestest! 

Sabr, voice it out to Allah, He is listening. Always listen. If by sabr will reward us a home in Jannah, why would we have to miss this chance, right? Remember that life is a temporary platform to live in. The constant tests will be given. To earn Jannah, we need to put our hard works for it. Keep doing your best, Allah sees everything. Nothing will ever be gone to waste. Keep striving. 

Remember the words of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for his affairs are all good, and this applies to no one but the believer. If something good happens to him, he is thankful for it and that is good for him. If something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience and that is good for him.” (Narrated by Muslim, 2999).  

Surviving the hateful things

"Things that you hate the most presently, might be the one that benefits you A LOT in future."

REMEMBER THAT.

I used to hate Mathematics and Physics during my high school days back then. No matter how hard I tried, I still think that I am a loser. That was long time ago. Back in future, the subjects I hated the most are the one that benefit me currently. Presently, I've becoming a tutor for Mathematics and Physics to my tuition students. What I usually do to them is helping them to go through topics that they do not understand at school. I'm not a school teacher, I am just a tutor. Like wow, look at me now! Don't take the most hated subjects back then so seriously. You might end up love it so much haha.

I hated physics, but I took a degree in physics. and I SURVIVED the torture! hahaha. Alhamdulillah for that as I passed all the subjects throughout the semesters. phew. Many people were asking don't you think it's the challenging course? Well people I guess I love challenging things in life. sigh. hahahaha.

Alhamdulillah, things I hated before has become something that give me benefits. A LOT. From that I could do some earnings for living. See, you do not underestimate what God has planned for you. It might be the one you hated now but the one that is great for you in future. People, please remember that when things do not work out or turn out as you planned, don't freak out ok. There's must be another way and better path for you to take. Always believe in God. I believe that for each struggles I am facing right now is because God has written something rewarding for me in future or maybe it's gonna be happening tomorrow! Who knows. 

*smile*

Life

Each one of us has our very own story. Our obstacles might be different from anyone else. Every places I been to would have their own apologue. We are being tested in different ways. If some people might have a problem with their business, some people might have an issue with their spouse. From all tests we face, to Allah we shall return and seek for a help. No matter from what background we're from. When we feel down about our life, never think Allah would let us be alone. Immersing myself within the community really open my eyes wide. I observed a little new thing that not every people we meet are not dealing with hardships.We are human, we do have hard time to handle. And, as a concern society we are able to at least give a moral support or any good advices to others in return to make them at least be happy and sweep the burden on their shoulders away a bit. We need each others back. In the end of the day, we realize that we're human and it's normal to have each other and the Lord to whom we rely on everything.